DG, those posts are happyagain I believe so that should help.:)
Jack is right about that pain and confusion. My H opened up to me the other night for the first time in a long time and that pain is so evident and I know what I saw and heard was only the tip of the iceburg. He is deeply, deeply unhappy. And broken. And he does blame pretty much everything else in his life for the pain and being what is "wrong," every decision he has ever made, who he is/was, everything. It is so painful to watch and to try to validate. I so, so badly wanted to tell him to get some help but didn't. He needs to see that himself first.
