Puppy, I see your point. Thanks. I recall from reading your thread that you ask that question of yourself. I will endeavor to keep that same question in the forefront of my mind.
So what do you think? Where to I go from here? Where did you go after the "withdrawal" phase? Part of me wants to step in to fill that void. IC says to give compliments, don't pursue, and listen. Part of me thinks in my situation, some form of indirect pursuit may be beneficial. What worked for you in this phase?