Things haven't exactly worked out the way I wanted.
I spoke with my W a couple days ago, and she said my behavior has convinced her once and for all that she's done with me. She wants to get the separation done, and this morning she gave me a proposal which includes her taking more care of the kids, getting more money from me, and here's the kicker, she says she's going to be spending time abroad, and she's going to take the kids with her, for up to 3 weeks at a time. She is not bluffing. I think when I "dumped" her, she went running back to OM, and is now convinced he is where her future lies.
I don't know if my actions caused this, or merely exposed what she wanted all along, but I am a wreck.
this is refered to as deja-poo.
which leads me to re-iterate the obvious, you are flip-flopping.
