I don't want to go there. I want my wife! I think she's HOT.
I don't care if she's hot. What you described is assault, and is unacceptable.
And no, don't go pursuing other women while you are still married. You're correct that your wife would certainly use it against you.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement