Originally Posted By: newmama
Wow, the Judge is NOT going to treat WH well!!! How is he so ignorant to think he doesn't even need to give you any money that would include child support?
DBD hang in there!


DBD, I'm not going to say this to scare you but does your H know something you, your L and the rest of us don't know?

I know WAS's kind of lose their mind when they leave. But they tend to still live in the real world where they have to pay bills etc.

What I fail to understand is how he thinks he can just walk away from you financially when you have two children together?

My thoughts are either, as I said he knows something we don't or he STILL doesn't believe you are going to an L. I believe it's the latter. Am I right in thinking that he has no real proof you have been to an L and are going through with it (ie. he has no papers etc. as yet)?

Is he planning on moving abroad (as he works away anyway)? That won't stop CS (as there is international cooperation on CS) but it will make it incredibly difficult to collect.

I hope I'm wrong and misreading this. Just be careful.


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"