What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Robx,

I see where you are coming from. Thanks for taking the time and helping me. I have gotten a lot more assertive. I didn't let that 6:45 wake up call go by without telling her that she was being disrespectful. I don't let her get away with that $hit anymore. You had me pegged from the start.

There are a number of really HOT women after me now. I am interested in a few of them. That is what has me concerned. If I go down that road, I may burn this bridge to what I really want: a reconciliation. I have stooped to her level. Isn't that what she wants? It would vindicate her actions.

If she doesn't change herself tho.... Would I be able to live with a reconciliation? She hasn't spoken my LL in 13 years either. I know I'm not 100% to blame here. I just want to work on my part.