What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Lotus,

Take a look back at my first post. Yeah, she got so pissed a few weeks ago, she hit me multiple times in the head and pushed me into a door and broke it. She hit me so hard she thought she broke a bone in her hand. I took her to the hospital right away and put it under the floro. I even got one of my hand surgeon buddies to take a look at it and got her in for an appointment without a wait a few days back when the pain just didn't go away. Funny thing, while we were waiting for the hand guy to get out of surgery to look at it she made it seem like it was such an inconvenience to her.

My therapist told me to call the police and I did. They came to the house and I just sat in the car and talked with them. I didn't want to file charges. He took a look at my house and said you obviously have provided well for her. He consoled me and basically said just let her go. She's a nut. "Yeah, thanks."

I wish I could get her into counseling. What does it take? I no longer ask her. I don't want to be a doormat any longer either.

I stand up for myself and tell her when she is out of line. I think she respects that now.

Mindfull,

You are a lot of help. I'm so sorry that you are dealing with health problems. That puts a big stress on your life and your R, but I'm glad things seem to be better with you and your H. Also, thanks for your kind words. They don't go unappreciated.