Hi RDW. Perhaps you could go on the path. 1 to 2 hours a week. Any questions you ask. Are answered. Then when you get around this... Stretch out the weeks.
And make sure that he understands that you just want the question answered no more. You are a border guard. Or a cop. So please do not say anything more than answer the exact question that was asked.
ANd each time this session is done. You both go for a walk. Hold hands. And just walk in silence. And each time he looks at you. Just smile. Say nothing.
And when the the walk is done. Kiss him. And tell him thank you. Then leave it at that.
