Everything we have outside of the mortgage, student loans and gym membership are separated. She pays me monthly for half of the mortgage, her portion of the student loans and her half of the gym membership. She has tried in the past to change the gym membership to her name only but was told she can't as I am the main account holder and need to make the changes. All I would be doing is when I call the gym to cancel my membership is to tell them that she will be calling in to set up on different credit card so that she does not have to pay another enrollment fee.
I have her pay me for the mortgage and the student loans as they are in both our names and I don't trust that she will actually pay them on time.
I do not pay for anything for her.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
