Vindictive? How about this, "if you want to be divorced and on your own then get your own membership." It is a "family" membership right? She does not want to be a family. Maybe someone else can word it better than I can.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final