Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

It's just that everything I read about MLC is exactly what he is doing. Re-evaluating life's goals, feeling like marriage has grown stale, blaming spouse for every unhappy thought or missed opportunity, having an affair. After he saw our dr., he was put on antidepressants which started to "even out" his moods until he decided to only take it when he felt like it. Ugggg Also, I see now (in hindsight) that he has been depressed for a long time. I just always chalked it up to having a stressful life with two children-one who is just barely a year old.

Maybe I'm just looking for excuses but I honestly would NEVER have thought that THIS man would cheat on his wife who adores him. I'm not sure why this is important to dwell on....I mean it's not like "the why" will change what he is doing.