Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[MHL]

I think you do it all out of love for your spouse. I know I said I look at that pic and it makes it easier to not call or contact. After thinking about it more, I need to not look at the pic so much and if I do, have pity on her, she is sick.

Are there cues to look at to help determine when to stop the fight? Or is this a natural process that happens; we move on and no longer want to fight?

I think that is a natural process, of falling out of love with your spouse through GALing and at that point it is a decision you make. I discussed this at length with my IC, and I just have to trust God when it comes to that day. I don't think you have to get mad, just Love as long as you feel like it, I think you will know. Chris