Just so I am clear, are you hoping to reconcile with your ex, or trying to move on for yourself?
If it's the later, who cares how many W he has lined up. How about focusing on you and how many men you have lined up?
I just see you focusing on him way to much, and want to understand why in your sitch..
I think I really want/wanted to R. Of course I hate the situation. Never going to happen with exh. He is such a broken man that doesn't want to change. I just keep getting my hopes up and then they come crashing down.
I wish I had men lined up! Nottta one!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!