Life Update...

[Treese]

Hey TOH....it's good to see you here..My kids keep telling me I need to get a FB...not sure Im ready for that because I would be tempted to look up H....well, maybe not...I just didn't need the temptation...but I think I might be ready to do it..

I'm glad to see you are where you are and as strong as you've become...I think some days I'm very strong and others, not so much...I realize it's a process and I WAS married for 25 years, it's not like it's going to go away in a few weeks...it is going to take a few years...I don't think H having a child I didn't know about has really sunk in....i only saw him once and he was 1 at the time. I don't know if I will ever be able to take that step...when I'm stronger maybe...right now...I'm very busy planning D23's wedding...it is getting close..time is flying by...we just posted her engagement announcement in the paper...H will see that soon...hasn't asked about any arrangements for the wedding or anything...didn't really expect him to though..he has really exited life as we all knew it..

I will never be able to explain it, or even try to...just that he didn't want to be married any longer.. I'm working on me...making me a better person...I'm calmer, more patient and we all know I had no patience...AT ALL!

I need to catch up on your thread....we pretty much had the same timeline.....I wish we could all have a get together and meet...I think it would be a blast...preferably somewhere warm...

Take Care....Treese