Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Thanks Kat.. and yes dont beat yourself up for decisions taken in good faith, if you had stayed together, you wouldnt be kicking yourself now.

Had a fantastic appointment with the doctor. He got my dilemma (age, early menopause on mothers side) is going to run tests as a precaution and said he would put down that we had been trying for over a year so we tick all the boxes in case we need to be referred to the fertility clinic. I was so pleased!! You get free fertility help (inc one free IVF I think) in the UK, but you have to have been trying for ages. So, we have backup if we need it.

I spoke to bf about the phonebill, just it was funny to see the calls, he just said he was sorry, smiled and kissed me. No drama!