Originally Posted By: jon2911
As for what dday said,


Ummmmm,

What I was saying is that in order to promote an atmosphere of change and promise, communication is absolutley a critical key to getting anywhere. Of all the stories we all have, most with many similarities, but they all have one thing in common: the ability to effectively communicate in all respects in each and every one of the situations on this board from the day it was created unitl the day it ceases to exist, effective communication simply was not happening.

I understand your point jon, yes, in general and it's no big secret, we do not repsond well to 'nagging and guilt tripping', and yes, GF's text came of as such and was clearly received by her H as such.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11