Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Haven't scheduled the counseling session yet. Still not sure if it would be better to wait a while longer?

A friend of mine told me wehn she left her H she wanted some time to be able to think. She said her H kept pursuing her. She told me that she would have probably given him another chance but he wouldn't give her the time and space she needed to think. Therefore she didn't go back to him as he just pushed her further away.

So I thinking about giving my W more time? I'm really confused here. If I go to counseling now my W will use it for closure but at least I will know her feelings. If I wait her reasons for counseling may or may not change?

Help!