Some will file quickly because they think it will end the pain they are in. And they usually find out it doesn't.
Others, not so quickly becuase they want to avoid pain at all costs. And D is painful.
Others, want it one minute, but the next they are not so sure. Even if they don't express the uncertainty.
Making concrete, clear choices is something that MLCer's are NOT good at.
A simple WAW, someone who just wants out of the M, faces the music, knows it will not be easy but has an idea of what the other side will look like and just does it. And moves forward.
I hope that helps. Maybe others can pitch in some thoughts.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
