Originally Posted By: Day by Day
The "from then on use the savings account". He needs to give me financial support. Those savings are mine only since he separated the savings into his/hers when he left. I need that $ for the L and other things he won't cover.

I won't respond to him. Really leaving now...


Ahhhh. Got it. I wasn't being pedantic. I just wanted to know what the really bugbear was.

So basically the savings he tells you to use are YOUR savings (as he has taken his share of them already)? And he also told you that he said on December 14th that effectively he was depositing two more payments into the non-savings account and that was him done with you financially? He thinks that's all he needs to pay? Am I right there?

Go for a long walk ...


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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