FLTC, good to hear from you, but I was hoping for a different story! I had to laugh, though, when you talked about the way your wife wants to split money and sick days. My ex wanted to follow the "letter of the law" for money matters (I stupidly agreed to pay 50% even though he makes 4x my salary).However, he never took the division of hoidays/summer vacation seriously (he would say "that is just what they had to put on paper, it doesn't mean we have to follow it"). I think it would be wise to have a final divorce settlement after you have lived with the settlement for a year....and realize all your mistakes! Or just listen to someone like me that made so many errors just to get the agreement over with! At least my ex and I still talk!
I hope at the trial your wife will get LESS than she could have agreed on! Keep usposted!
Meanwhile, happy new year. How is your son? Gym woman?
