Still sorting through my emotions. I'm not hurt/angry/resentful that she filed, but I am about the way she did it. No warning, and having me served at my office? In front of my co-workers. I didn't think she would stopp to that low level. What in the world did she think she would gain by doing this, other than simply trying to inflict the maximum amount of pain/hurt to me? Simply is no other reason. But, she has to live with that.
I know it sucks and it is hard, but who cares why she did it? I do suspect it was mostly out of fear on her part. She is afraid that if she tries to talk to you about it, you would either react with anger or try to stop her. That being said, it is worth bringing up to her that the way she did it was pretty classless for someone who has known you x years. Then you have to put it to her, are we going to do this the easy way or the hard way? Do you want to get real or just pour money away through lawyers?
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