Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

Ready2change-
Thanks for the great link. I think I will have to re-read it a couple more times before it happens but it gave me quite a bit of insight.

Awoken-
Thanks (as always) for the encouraging words. Believe it or not I hadn't even thought about the fact that after "the talk" things could change with H and I. I know that sounds strange but I guess in my mind once we have "the talk" everything is over for my marriage. Obviously, not very sound thinking on my part.

I had to go to a meeting last night so I was gone again. When I got home I picked up the house and went on into the bedroom to read. I am so sad when I look at him because of this huge void that seems to be growing between us. I imagine he spends most of his time thinking about OW. Who could possibly be so great as to take this man away from his children? I have started thinking about my life when he is gone. I am starting to understand that H will have to go thru this midlife crisis to get to the other side. I just don't see myself standing there on the other side many times...other times I do.