I believe he's saying we are seeing each other from the way WAH responds to me. Not true... I've only heard his voice, never met him.
DBD it doesn't matter at this stage if you were Mother Teresa. You are on a hiding to nothing with H and OW. The more you respond and play their game the more the fire is fuelled. Do a 180. Go dark. Work on you and the kids.
Your responses keep them going in their fantasy.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"