Originally Posted By: cutterbug
P... You still have to post your reply to that super long post from the other day.


I know Cutter. You know what, I'm actually scared to. I will reply today though.

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And lets now chanage the topic to D's Mom.
I am going to offer a suggestion to you.
This is going to be tough on you.
<SNIP>
Then you need to back off.

And take the time to lean on yourself. D's mom has been there for you. You have leaned on her. But I think you are becoming attached. This is not the time. You are not ready. I would hate to see you lose all this hard work.


Spot on the ball as usual cutter.

I am going to back off from D's mum and I will explain to her why. I think we've both been leaning on each other. She has been on and off with her partner since August and they recently split again, this time for the last time.

I need to get on with this myself but also obviously need to make sure I detach properly without anybody getting hurt or feeling rejected.

It's just out of the frying pan and into the fire.

Last edited by P17; 01/06/10 01:27 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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