SP what ever the fall out is from MrsSP's imparting wisdom to themselves, having read your thread they will be safe, consistency doesnt mean two parents, one exceptional one can do the job of two, and boy you are exceptional!
MrsSP really should have bought a handbag rather than have children but then you would have been without the most precious thing in your life! It will take time but they will eventually see what MrsSP for what she is and I have to say that I dont think the word mother applies.. Regardless of what Mr Rabbit put me through I would never have coloured S21's view of him, or stop their relationship, or if he had been younger abandon him for weeks on end just to have my freedom, that ended the day he arrived and will always be my job description, wife, mother, parent!
You do your kids proud and they are lucky to have a dad like you! Excuse my 4c's
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