I have a deep compassion and empathy for what she's going thru and I don't know how to show her, she has and is doing nothing wrong, just buy us sometime and it will all get better.
Don't worry about showing her. That is not important. If you make real changes she will notice but you do not tell.
Time - Get ready to invest a lot of it. You have lots of time! This is not going to be a short ride.
