Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Thanks soleil. My W had sad something briefly about growing in different directions. This was when she told me she wanted a divorce. Again, I beleive this was because she was frustrated I didn't have a job at the time. I believe we still want the same things.

I'm considering the MC even if she wants to go for closure in her mind. It will be difficult for me to hear what she says.

Question, is what she says at MC for clousre really how she feels about marriage or is some of it a defense mechanism? Anyone's advice is welcome.

Sandi2, I think you were in a similar situation. Do you have any commnents or advice?