W does not know I talked to her either time. I see no reason for her to know. Do you agree?
Yes, I do agree with you. At this time, she doesn't need all that stress on her. There may come a time later that if you feel she should know then you might tell her. I would play that one by ear.
Just remember that it will take a long time and she will still have mood swings.
Doing big 180's and looking attractive....and acting attractive is so important. It will be tempting to want to smother her during this time with her mother, but act like a good friend and don't push.
Good job.
Last edited by sandi2; 01/06/1012:03 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
