is this the anger depression mlc...all of his crap?
yes it's CRAP!
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WHY if all someone wants is a divorce...away from you or whatever words they choose, do the do EVERYTHING for you?
Because they are still human and they feel guilty. This is a way for them to tell themselves that they are doing the right thing. They can seem to others that they are doing the right thing. What a guy!
They play this way because they can. And they will continue to do so as long as YOU let them. He will play on your goodness and emotions. He'll suck up every ounce of sympathy he can. He won't file for D because that will end this game. Then he'll have to face this bed he's made.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!