Another Sad Deployed Soldier/Dad

[SoldierDad]

AS,

You need to calm down, and take a deep breath.

Stop contacting your W. Unless it has to do with the kids, STOP.

Is there anything you can do from where you are at? NO. If she is having an A, there is nothing you can do but establish your boundaries with her.

You are strong enough to go dark, you are an American Soldier-a Warrior.

Of course she isn't happy, you are ruining her fantasy.
DO not contact the OM anymore.

Set boundaries.

You can recover from this. We have ALL made mistakes.