What can I do to save my marriage? Help

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Lotus,

I have. I spend any free moment I can get with my kids. Loving them, talking to them, reading to them. Things are great with the kids now.

She told me " when you go on this trip don't go overboard doing things with the kids" She calls me "Mr. Fun Guy". It seems like she hates the fact that I have bonded with the kids and they have responded favorably to me. She wants me to fail.

When this first happened in October, she said that I needed to get a good relationship with the kids going first. "then we can work on us". I think the opposite is necessary, but I did what I could.

I have insisted that I will not be pushed from the nest. That frustrated her to the point that she physically beat me three weeks ago.

Any other suggestions? I want so much for this to work. Despite her behavior toward me, I still love her and I want the best for my family. I want us to be together.

On this trip, I am going to be upbeat and positive. We are going to have a good time. I want her to have second thoughts.