Did her cousin tell you why she liked the OM so much? What was it that appealled to her?
Be all those things and more. When you meet up with her, act as if you don't have a care in the world and be confident. It'll be hard as hell to shove the thought of the OM in the background, but that's why you need to detach asap.
Show her who is the better guy. Cut her short and keep communications short and sweet. Like you have something better to do than to listen to her issues.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.