Ya, the A is exposed-by her. I set the boundary about sharing her with another man But she denies it is an A - just friends.
OM bought her a black onyx ring for x-mas-was on her nightstand.
Also there has been at least one other that I KNOW of.
She describes the M as me smothering her/not trusting her-with good reason/me not wanting to take her out dancing etc.
When i was home and we were together for the 2 days, she kept saying that she didn't think I would change, she can't get over me hiring a PI, I knew her, and she would NEVER cheat, she just denied everything, and experctly deflected everything into it being my fault!!
As soon as I got on the plane - she slowly became the person she was before I left.
Ya, Puppy and a few others are really bringing things into focus for me. I just need to listen to them!!
Last edited by SoldierDad; 01/06/1007:55 AM.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010
