Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Tulsa,

I want her to know that I am here for her, but then I walk a fine line in that if I do that, it could show her weakness. SO, what does one do with that?

Also, I struggle with just sitting here on my hands, tape across my mouth as my W carries on in at least one inappropriate relationship. It is hard to just LET her do that, and sit by idly, as the "good husband" and NOT think of myself as "weak" - you know?