Being compassionate is not weakness. Sometimes it can take long time and it will be a rollercoaster. You have to decide whether you can handle that.
The book is titled "I Do Again" by Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.
NowI believe you should show spouse unconditional love when you can, although right now isn't the right time to lay it on thick.
First look to God for help, then look at yourself and your part in this, then make changes and go from there. Be a better person and husband.
I do think some of the other advice is good. You'll have to decide what to pick and choose. Think, does this action or response get me closer to my goal?
