Hey B, I figure, in a way, we're all in this together. I'd never visited a "chat room" or forum before and stumbled onto this one about three months post Bomb..It has saved me from thinking I was going crazy!
MLC is a strange animal. Most info about it is experiential-the group here with the resources and experience is invaluable.
Reading and educating myself has helped alot(I have a small self-help/MLC/Getting past affairs/Forgiveness/Communication library growing under my bed!), but the support and advice and sharing here has helped me the most.
I'm sorry you are here, but I'm glad you found this place.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.