"At some point, she will look back on this time of her life and regret what she's done. You can choose to be just another memory -- one of many mistakes she feels she can't take back -- or you can choose to be there to tell her that you forgive her."
Trent,
my issue on this is, what should be my timetable for her to "find her way?" I mean, I can't wait forever.
I think I am going to continue DB, until after I get back in March, and then see where she is.
I think that is fair, and even then there is NO guarantees that she is going to commit to counseling.
It is hard right now, because she is so closed off to the idea. Especially knowing that she is involved with OM, and probably has no intention of giving that up anytime soon.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010