When I found out about the trip, I was quiet at first. I thought,good, my family are going to have a good time. Then I thought, she is trying to manipulate my kids. This is jacked.
I calmly told her that I didn't think it was right that she was doing this and that I felt she was manipulating the kids with this trip, besides, it is my daughters meet and I should be there too. She agreed, and reluctantly sent me the flight schedules. I set up my own flights. I'm going and I'm going to have a good time. I also told her to abort the Phoenix trip, if she wanted me to trust her, she wouldn't take trips like this alone, but she has a strong drive to be there....I think it's the OM.
Lotus is right again. She won't miss me. She just wants me to bankroll all of it. I have been trying so hard to get her into counseling. She won't budge.
Tonight, I have dealt with a massive bloody trauma, an organ harvest, ovarian cancer, and multiple deliveries in OB. I see people with life and death problems every day. If she could only see that her problem is just miniscule in comparison to all of these, but she professes it's all my problem. It frustrates me to no end.
Today, I went back on Facebook. I have avoided it since this affair because I felt it was the cause of all of this to start with.I felt FB was evil.
I posted a cute comment somewhere and then I got a barrage of texts and messages from my hot single women friends. I don't want to go there and I want to take the high road, but what is a guy supposed to do when his W is destroying his family and marriage.
It bothers her that I am getting their attention. I suppose I have to do something to get her attention.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
