Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

Maybe I am looking for someone to "validate" what i am doing.

I think you should fight for your wife. The woman you fell in love with and married is still in there somewhere.

At some point, she will look back on this time of her life and regret what she's done. You can choose to be just another memory -- one of many mistakes she feels she can't take back -- or you can choose to be there to tell her that you forgive her.

If you can beat the odds and pull your marriage back from the brink, your kids will tell their children about how much Grandpa loved Grandma. What does that demonstrate to your kids? Compassion? Empathy? Courage? Strength?

But that's the happy ending. You have a long way to go before you get there. But never doubt that the battle is worth fighting.