Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Lotus, I have tried since she told me again.

She says the same thing: "I can't get past that you don't trust me" "You know me better than that" "You aren't going to change" "I'm not seeing anyone"

I asked her to go to counseling, no dice. See, I believe she doesn;t want to go to counseling because she KNOWS the problem isn't completely ME, and she doesn't want to have to fess up to her indiscretions. THAT would indicate that she was everything she told her family and I that she wasn't.

I don't know that she in content, but she sure makes ME feel that way.

And, what would change her mindset so fast, and with such conviction. I mean she completely changed literally overnight after I was out of sight? I think I am on the side of Puppy on this one-crocidile tears and a faux sense of remorse.