We are really living like roommates right now,any physical contact is few and far between,every once in awhile she will in her own way let me know she is feeling horny and I of course am glad to help her out with that but after that night it's back to roommates again.
She is very complicated and it takes allot of patience,but the truth is I would rather be where we are now instead of seperated or divorced.
It certainly isn't the marriage I want but for right now it's what we have.
I am trusting and praying that she will work her way through whatever she is going through and we will reconnect and rebuild a better marriage but that won't happen until she decides she wants it.
If she was in any way cruel or running around and partying and staying out all night or if there was another man it would be a different story but I love this woman and would rather have the parts of her I do have than nothing at all.
Married 28 yrs Seperated 6 mths Rec D Papers 11/24 W Canceled D Moved Back Home 3/1/08 2 Kids D23 and S16 Trying 2 Put R Back Together