Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[TrentC]

Am I dumb for STILL wanting my M?? I feel stupid for still loving her and wanting my M to work.

We can give you advice, encourage you, motivate you, and whack you upside the head when you need it.

You keep asking this question; but only you can decide for yourself how much you can take.

I once spun you a tale of how she could have turned against you; it was 100% fiction and not based on any particular insight into your wife. But just because she is on a self-destructive path and lashing out at you doesn't mean she doesn't deserve sympathy, or pity.