Waiting More Than a Dozen Years

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Here's a good chance for you think it through and make a decision. It should be unfair for you to take bets on this, because you should be the one making the decision. Put it where you want it to be and stick with your decision.

However, if I get grief over my choice, I shall simply box it up, hand it back to her. Putting up with the crap I'd have to deal with is no longer worth it to me. A 'gift' given to me that requires her approval is not a gift at all. I have an advantage in hearing some of the other gift conversationsshe has had previously and in this year in particular.