his WANT to watch her alone is perfectly fine. who wouldn't want that??? whether it is for pride reasons, or to just plain be alone with her or whatever. so I'm saying that is expected, of course he's going to try to do that. But of course the answer is NO.
I'm just trying to show that these texts are totally understandable. so, then you place the boundary where you want it. don't obsess over it all, you know your not going to allow the unsupervised visits, so be calm and be glad he wants time with his daughter but keep the boundary. in regards to him asking what your doing...well, to me, I expect him to do that as well. but if you don't want him to know, then that is your boundary. don't let his actions/words change how you feel. YOU are the one giving him the control, not him.
he's not doing much right now IMHO.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
