Mixed Signals or is this Limbo Land

[MHL]

I feel like I am back on track from my backslide this weekend. Being friendly again and my W is being friendly back, its like the whole confrontation thing at the bar did not happen??? I am going to roll with it and see, still moving forward with the lawyer thing but I feel like if we hammer out this separation agreement then it will be behind us and will no longer be an issue. I had to dig a little in the success stories and found a WAW success story where the wife came back but it was a long road to rcovery after she moved back in. The poster is WAWfighter and if you search his posts you will see some of his threads. His WAW moved back in Nov. 05 here is the link.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=538845&page=9
I keep finding the same common theme in some of the older threads and it is being your W's friend, and letting her do the initiating of the contact. (I suck at this but did not initiate today!!) WAWfighter even sighted "being her friend" was the biggest key to his success. Also keeping his cool, about the OM and the ongoing A.
If you are getting down, go digging and read a some old threads that are similar to yours and read through them. I especially like to find the same age and similar WAW/affair sitch's. Gives me hope for my sitch.