Dusk at Dawn.

[chatterbug]

Hi Cutter. I take it as a compliment that you invited me to drop by your thread. As usual, you are doing a great job. Few have come here and did as much as fast.

I don't really know anything to add. I have seen throughout people's threads that "drama" seems to be what sinks the ship the quickest. The WAW will try to pull you into that drama in order to get the control. If you don't wort it off, friends and family can pull you into the drama also. So, finding where your strength lies and hanging onto it.....and applying it....is what you have to do. You are doing it, as far as I can tell. I believe when the LBH "refuses" to be drawn into the drama that the WAW presents.....then she has no fight! How can you fight if the other person won't strike back?

As you well know, when a S or D is drawn up, angry emotions are all over the place and a perfect setting for a good case of drama. So, I encourage you to refuse to be emotional with her. Refuse to fall into her pits. Stay calm and collected in her presence. Smile & wave! She will make a mountain out of every molehill. So, sit back and smile & wave as if you think....."whatever".

I tried to contact you, but guess it was on the old thread. I was concerned about one of the newcomers we had been talking to about exposure. But, maybe he's got things under control. IDK. Just concerned about it.

Take care, Cutter.

Oh thank you Sandi. Post on this one. Your words of wisdom are always welcome. I would really like if you kept an eye on me. As I know this is a very critical stage in my life. I do not want to back pedal. Too much suffered last year. Life, work. I am trying to get back on my feet. I hold you in the highest reguards.

I will make sure I read your post every day up to the the wedding. I will not have any issues with ladybug. I will be as I have always been. A gentleman.

Again. Thank you very much. If you would be so kind to check out P , DBD and NM threads as well. We are a 4 of a kind...