well, tonight I was going to dinner with my bro and his new wife(that one hurts even though I am happy for them--seeing 2 people so completely in love and happy which is what we were 5 years ago) and the W called and asked if I picked up S2 from daycare(like I would forget). I told her that I had and that my bro was at the house to give her a heads up and what time she would be home? She instantly flips out and starts to yell that I am just trying to make her look bad and that I am trying to "play" like I am a good parent and all, and that I have been doing that since S2 was born. Rational person question here---If I have been "playing" like I am a good dad the entire time that my one and only son has been alive and continue to "play" the role of a good dad, than aren't I by definition a good dad?!? I told her that I was not trying to make her look bad and just said that we would be at the house for about an hour than going to dinner and ended the call, she than called 3-4 times and began texting me to call her back, I just ignored until after dinner. Than I called her back and she said she wanted to know if she needed to pick up diapers, I told her no that I already had done that since he was wearing the last diaper at dinner (dangerous going to a mexican place with 1 diaper!!) She than made another comment about me being a "play" dad, I just kind of laughed and hung up the phone. BTW she is still out at the bar and not home, guess that will have to get different for her soon??
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?