Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[MichelleLT]

You enforce boundaries on your end.

You end communication when she lies or turns it into an argument.

Boundaries are not about her. They are about how she treats you. And you do have control over what you put up with from her. You cannot enforce anything on her. You never could. And you never will be able to.

You can control you.

You can understand you.

Your stitch is not unique. Your W is not unique.

She could turn around. Stranger things have happened. But it won't happen for a long time and it will be backed up with a lot of action - none of which is what you are dealing with now.

You are not crazy to have hope.

Prepare for the worst though.

That way you won't be disappointed.