While your H is home, use it to your advantage. Start going out on your own. Do your own thing and not tell him where you're going.
Buy yourself a new sexy outfit and go out. Even if it's just to go to the movies. Hang out with friends. Preferably male ones that he knows.
In a way, you have to become like the WAS to get him to notice you. Let's face it. He has been cake-eating and it's time to show him that you are an independent woman who is desired by others.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.