I understand, SD. I really do. I wanted to understand my wife too! All I can tell you is what I tell other people: You will know the real remorse when you see it, and "this ain't it."
You went WAY too much by her WORDS. The way it was explained to me, when I asked the question "How will I know when she is telling the truth?", was this way: when her words match her ACTIONS, over time, then you will know that she is telling the truth.
